This will be another relatively short post.
Just this week, two of my blogging friends have had a major falling out. Both of these friends, who will remain nameless in this post, are very dear to me. I met the second one through the first. I have read some very hurtful things on both of their blogs, and am very saddened by them. What has saddened me even more, is the extremely nasty things being posted in comments by friends of each. Some of these comments are made by people who don't even know the other party. What bothers me the most is, just a few years ago, if things like this had been posted in a newspaper, or any other public medium, there could be slander and libel lawsuits flying. But because it's the Internet, people seem to think that the laws don't apply, and let the anger, hatred and venom fly loose. I feel very badly for both my friends, because I love both dearly. And yet, I can't read either of their blogs without reading nasty things about the other. This hurts me because I am a staunch defender of all of my friends. You hurt them, you've hurt me too. I do hope that the anger will cool off, and that some apologies will come forth from both sides. I want my two friends to become best blog buddies again. I don't know if either can forgive, but I'm hoping they both will.
But please, no more hateful words. I can't take it anymore.
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Hi Steve, I don't have a clue who you're talking about and I don't want to know. Sometimes it's better to be in the dark.
I had a little go around with a blog friend this week, too. A small misunderstanding over those dreadful windows. I hope I've cleared up my part.
These things happen on blogs and in life. Don't be too upset over it. You don't need to choose. That would be way too stressful.
I hope that they patch things up, too. I had no idea what was really going on...Yikes. I stopped by to tell you that you were tagged...Man, I hope that things work out.
I don't wanna choose, either.
Phoenix--I would never ask or expect anyone ever to choose in a situation like that. And I would never stop being your friend if you were friends with both.
I treasure your friendship and your feelings.
Came back and deleted my comments...so forget it and take care...
Hi! I've been reading Canadian Flake for a little bit now - I found her through a friend of mine...
I don't know the story - and don't want to know the story...
but that is not why I am commenting here.
Just wanted to say a hello! I am originally from Guelph! Was born there - before you - and had a house on Memorial Crescent. I still have relatives there and a girlfriend who lives over on Petrolia street...not a great claim to fame that one..but her choice..
Anyway - I wrote a lot about Guelph on my blog as I use to work at the Royal Hotel when it was a strip club and the Chooch...
If you are interested - look under the label 'truth' on my sidebar - the story is quite long - but I do mention Guelph quite a bit.
I miss the place sometimes - the beautiful houses...the trees - the Elora quarry...Guelph Lake...
In my mind's eye I can still see what it looked like along Wyndham Street way back before all the changes were made...sigh...
Phoenix--I'm sorry, I never asked anyone to choose, but as I said, she deletes people on a whim, instead of letting people explain or anything. I'm sorry she deleted you too, after she totally misunderstood what you said. I understood it. It's pretty dam clear. She hears what she wants to, and your just another victim in a long line of them.
Well, I didn't want to have to make a choice, in fact, I REFUSED to make a choice, but it looks like the choice was made for me. This saddens me, but I hope that eventually, things will come back to normal.
Babzy - Life happens, eh? Sucks though.
Biddie - Thanks for the tag. You can find mine in my archives somewhere. Lucky for you I'm NOT a prolific blogger! LOL!
Burfica - I treasure you and your friendship as well. Thanks for understanding.
Flake - I'm sorry you feel this way. It wasn't my intention to point a finger at anyone. You're welcome back anytime you choose.
Aims - Welcome to a former Guelphite! The city has changed an awful lot in the last few years. So much so, I'm seriously contemplating abandoning it for Fergus or somewhere slower, friendlier and less expensive.
I am sorry your feeling bad! Seems enough people are feeling bad. Like you, I am not choosing sides. (I like them BOTH but dont tell anyone) hehehe...
to quote a famous somebody....
cant we all just get along???
Mom
Hope it turns out ok,for everyone.
I see you added me to your links,I'm adding you now.
thanks
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